Love and Sex? Must The Two Go Together?

Not going to be a long post just actually a question that I would like some feedback on ! So that means yall have to comment this blog so I can collect some info !!

Anyway…

Love and Sex……… Do you think that the two should go together or do you think it is alright to have sex without the love..

Me personally think sex is sex and love is love.. And you can have the two either together or seperate ! Really does not matter to me..

However this is a blog all about sex sooooooooo I need some answers from you who read this blog !!

Start the comments please. !!

Whips, Chains, Handcuffs, Smack a Little Booty Up With My Belt !

Yep you got it and you should have known it was coming.. BDSM also know as bondage and discipline , domination and submission as well as sadism and masochism!

Uh huh many are like OMG I would never, however if you would just open your mind and stop looking at the word sadism, you might enjoy the hell out of yourself ! Cause yea there is nothing like a little or a lot of ass smacking, handcuffing, blindfolding sex !

So for those who have no clue as to what it is, the actually definition is this ! The term “BDSM” is an abbreviation derived from the terms bondage and discipline, domination and submission, sadism and masochism. It defines a spectrum of behaviors, including dominance, submission, punishment, masochism, bondage, role play, and a large variety of other activities, frequently sexual in nature. “BDSM” is the collective term for a group of related sexual preferences common in issue-related literature, which are sometimes referred to as “D/s”, “Sadomasochism”, or “S&M

Damn confusing isn’t it ! But no worries, I will explain it in a much easier way !

Soo BDSM, what is it? Basically tying up your lover, bossing your lover around and hundreds of other things come into play when practicing and enjoying BDSM. In the easiest terms possible, BDSM is when the submissive person submits to the dominant person.. The submissive person then allows the dominant one to do whatever they want within limits and sometimes without. (all depends on you)

BDSM can consist of light pain or severe pain. Blindfolding to complete body wrapping. Hand tying to a rope wrapped around your entire body very tightly. It just all depends on what you like and the limits you set for your play time.

Remember, those who do practice BDSM, they do so because they want to, not because they are made to. There are very specific rules in BDSM that most people abide by. So do not ever think that those who are into it are made to participate, cause it is not so !

I personally like a little light bondage.. That’s it though.. Smacking ass, tying up, blindfolding, nipple suctions, force fullness, etc… YES… I do however have my limits.. There will be no blood shed at all (or I’ll kick some ass), No needles (shit), no peeing or shitting on me (cause uhmm NO, disgusting), no walking me around with some collar and chain.. (doesn’t work for me), and definitely NOTHING to do with my feet..(I hate my feet touched..:-/)

Now that you have a little idea of what it is, here are some key terms and there definitions you might have heard but had no idea as to what they were.. I will continue this blog in part two, so no worries!

CHEMICAL PLAY…. Any form of sensation play involving the use of mild irritants such as wintergreen oil, menthol, Tabasco sauce, and the like to create sensation. ( Tabasco sauce, damn scary)

CLEAVE GAG… A type of gag, usually made of cloth, that is pulled tightly between the wearer’s teeth and tied behind the head. The cleave gag forces the mouth partway open and is quite effective in preventing speech.. ( oh yes )

And………….

COCK AND BALL TORTURE (CBT): Any of a number of different practices involving pain play of the penis and testicles, including such practices as binding, compressing, striking, or stretching the penis or testicles. (uhmm I am not into doing this either.. NO)

Tooo be continued……….

How about you…. Do you like BDSM? And how?

Comments below please……..

Ridiculous Sex Laws….. Only In The USA…. Part Two !

You didn’t think there was only a few did ya! Come on now you know how our laws work here in the United States.. I am amazed that some of these are still one the books.. I truly could not imagine getting arrested for such anal acts..

Soo here we go……..

Oblong, Illinois…… If your planning on fishing or hunting on your wedding day you mine as well forget it in this small town cause youuuu guessed it ! You’re NOT ALOUD  !

Alexandria, Minnesota….. Men if you’re thinking of making love to your significant other you better not even think of eating anything that leaves the smell of garlic, onions or sardines on your breath! That’s right it is forbidden, and get this… If the wife requests, haha the man must brush his teeth before performing!

Ames, Iowa….Another one for the guys… If you’re making love to your wife, and want a few sips of beer after wards while lying in bed, forget it! The law says you are not allowed to take more than three sips of beer while you are lying in bed, or while she is lying in your arms !

Newcastle, Wyoming…. This one is hilarious.. Couples are banned from having sex while standing inside of a store walk in meat freezer !

Nevada…. I always wondered why they didn’t wear them! The Nevada Legislature is not aloud to wear a penis costume while the legislature is in session !

Sioux Falls, South Dakota…. If a couple rents a room in a hotel with two twin beds for only one night. The beds MUST be 2 feet apart, and the couple is not aloud to have sex on the floor in between the beds.. (where do they get these laws?)

New York….. A fine of $25 can be levied for flirting. This old law specifically prohibits men from turning around on any city street and looking “at a woman in that way.” A second conviction for a crime of this magnitude calls for the violating male to be forced to wear a “pair of horse-blinders” wherever and whenever he goes outside for a stroll

Florida….. Of course I should have know.. Any form of sexual contact other than missionary position is a misdemeanor. There have been several cases of people being brought up on these charges in the past 5 years alone. If the police enter a home with a warrant for some other crime and catch the ‘culprits’ in action, they can, and are, brought up on those charges.

And last but not least………

Florida…… AGAIN.. No wonder I moved away….. Geezzz..  If you’re a single, divorced, or widowed woman, you can’t parachute on Sunday afternoons..

There ya have it.. Some of the most ridiculous sex laws that are still on the books today! Hope you enjoy !

To be continued……………….