Whips, Chains, Handcuffs, Smack a Little Booty Up With My Belt !

Yep you got it and you should have known it was coming.. BDSM also know as bondage and discipline , domination and submission as well as sadism and masochism!

Uh huh many are like OMG I would never, however if you would just open your mind and stop looking at the word sadism, you might enjoy the hell out of yourself ! Cause yea there is nothing like a little or a lot of ass smacking, handcuffing, blindfolding sex !

So for those who have no clue as to what it is, the actually definition is this ! The term “BDSM” is an abbreviation derived from the terms bondage and discipline, domination and submission, sadism and masochism. It defines a spectrum of behaviors, including dominance, submission, punishment, masochism, bondage, role play, and a large variety of other activities, frequently sexual in nature. “BDSM” is the collective term for a group of related sexual preferences common in issue-related literature, which are sometimes referred to as “D/s”, “Sadomasochism”, or “S&M

Damn confusing isn’t it ! But no worries, I will explain it in a much easier way !

Soo BDSM, what is it? Basically tying up your lover, bossing your lover around and hundreds of other things come into play when practicing and enjoying BDSM. In the easiest terms possible, BDSM is when the submissive person submits to the dominant person.. The submissive person then allows the dominant one to do whatever they want within limits and sometimes without. (all depends on you)

BDSM can consist of light pain or severe pain. Blindfolding to complete body wrapping. Hand tying to a rope wrapped around your entire body very tightly. It just all depends on what you like and the limits you set for your play time.

Remember, those who do practice BDSM, they do so because they want to, not because they are made to. There are very specific rules in BDSM that most people abide by. So do not ever think that those who are into it are made to participate, cause it is not so !

I personally like a little light bondage.. That’s it though.. Smacking ass, tying up, blindfolding, nipple suctions, force fullness, etc… YES… I do however have my limits.. There will be no blood shed at all (or I’ll kick some ass), No needles (shit), no peeing or shitting on me (cause uhmm NO, disgusting), no walking me around with some collar and chain.. (doesn’t work for me), and definitely NOTHING to do with my feet..(I hate my feet touched..:-/)

Now that you have a little idea of what it is, here are some key terms and there definitions you might have heard but had no idea as to what they were.. I will continue this blog in part two, so no worries!

CHEMICAL PLAY…. Any form of sensation play involving the use of mild irritants such as wintergreen oil, menthol, Tabasco sauce, and the like to create sensation. ( Tabasco sauce, damn scary)

CLEAVE GAG… A type of gag, usually made of cloth, that is pulled tightly between the wearer’s teeth and tied behind the head. The cleave gag forces the mouth partway open and is quite effective in preventing speech.. ( oh yes )

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COCK AND BALL TORTURE (CBT): Any of a number of different practices involving pain play of the penis and testicles, including such practices as binding, compressing, striking, or stretching the penis or testicles. (uhmm I am not into doing this either.. NO)

Tooo be continued……….

How about you…. Do you like BDSM? And how?

Comments below please……..