Sex… Why Are People So Shhhhh About It ?

Ever since I was in the 7th grade and in catholic school, the issue of sex was so hush, hush that I personally had no idea what it was until I went into public high school.  And the only reason I figured it out was because of my friends who were seriously sexually active. It’s not like I could go to my Mom and ask her what it was, it just wasn’t something she talked about with me.

So as I became older and sexually active, I always wondered what the hell the big deal was about the “sex” thing and why people were so hush, hush about it.

Reality people…. We are all here because of sex.. Whether it be nasty or boring sex, we are still here from our parents having sex !

Still as I sit here and write this, I am still surprised and totally blown away by the sheer ignorance a lot of people have when it comes to sex! There are still those who will not talk about it at all, those who judge others for what kind of sex they have, and then those who completely are mortified by the sheer fact that sex is pleasurable.

What I want to know is why?

I have heard the excuse “well my religion”, bullshit ! That is a bunch of horse shit… Religion is an excuse for many, but it is not the reason.. There has to be a reason as to why some people think that sex is bad, evil, disgusting, etc.

Tell me why….. I want to know.. Maybe one of these days I will actually get an answer that is believable.

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Penis Not Working Right? Well Start Having MORE SEX !

Well I guess having lots of sex is a bonus! I always knew it was….. No wonder I always feel so good after having a weeks worth..

On the serious side however, a new study reveals some interesting assumptions !! Take a looksie below..

By Steven Reinberg
HealthDay Reporter

THURSDAY, July 3 (HealthDay News) — Frequent sexual intercourse may cut down on a man’s chances of developing erectile dysfunction, Finnish researchers report.

“This is the same as any other part of the body. It’s what we in vascular surgery refer to as the ‘use it or lose it’ concept,” said Dr. Hossein Sadeghi-Nejad, an associate professor of urology at UMDNJ New Jersey Medical School Hackensack University Medical Center. “Sexual activity will promote maintenance of normal erectile function down the line.”

The report was published in the July issue of The American Journal of Medicine.

In the study, led by Dr. Juha Koskimaki, from Tampere University Hospital’s Department of Urology, researchers collected data on 989 Finnish men aged 55 to 75 years old.

The researchers found that men who said they had sexual intercourse less than once a week had twice the risk of developing erectile dysfunction, compared with men reporting having sexual intercourse once a week.

Among men who had sexual intercourse less than once a week, there were 79 cases of erectile dysfunction per 1,000 men. That number dropped to 32 cases per 1,000 among men who said they had sexual intercourse once a week, and it dropped even further, to 16 per 1,000, among men who said they had sexual intercourse three or more times a week, the researchers reported.

The frequency of morning erections was not associated with the incidence of moderate erectile dysfunction, the researchers noted.

However, the development of complete erectile dysfunction could be predicted from the frequency of morning erections. Among men with less than one morning erection a week, the risk of developing erectile dysfunction was 2.5-fold greater than among men who had two to three morning erections per week.

“Regular intercourse has an important role in preserving erectile function among elderly men, whereas morning erection does not exert a similar effect,” Koskimaki said in a statement. “Continued sexual activity decreases the incidence of erectile dysfunction in direct proportion to coital frequency.”

Sadeghi-Nejad said there is a scientific basis for this finding, and it also has implications for rehabilitation of patients after prostate cancer treatment.

“What is very hot these days is what we can do to rehabilitate people who develop erection problems after prostate cancer surgery or radiation therapy,” Sadeghi-Nejad said. “Anything you can do to increase oxygenation in the penis will help get patients back to normal.”

If one can naturally engage in behaviors that increase blood flow to the penis, it will have a positive effect in preventing erectile dysfunction, Sadeghi-Nejad said.

Sadeghi-Nejad noted that the study only addressed intercourse, and not masturbation. “This is essentially the same concept,” Sadeghi-Nejad said. “Anything you can do to bring blood to the penis is beneficial,” he added.