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July 25, 2009 Posted by sexintheusa | Sex | | No Comments Yet

500 Person Orgy !!

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Can you imagine 250 couples having sex at the same time? Well, now you can watch it on 500 Person Sex that was released by Japanese adult video production house, Soft on Demand (SOD) on 4th May 2006. It is the largest known sex orgy recorded.

The 130 minute video, was produced by in-house production company SODcreate, and directed by Tsuchiya Yukitsugu

April 26, 2009 Posted by sexintheusa | Sex | , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | No Comments Yet

Did you know, the most popular dildo is……….

Various fruits and vegetables.. Yes you read it right, according to World Sex Records women have used more bananas, zucchini’s, carrots, eggplants, squash and many other fruits or vegetables for replacement of a penis more than anything else. It is also known that a candle is actually the most widely used artificial device.. Food for thought huh..

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April 26, 2009 Posted by sexintheusa | Sex | , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | No Comments Yet

Check out the Beautiful Erotic Art of Peter Kunz

I have to say there are not too many erotic & sensual artists in which I fancy. After seeing the gallery of Peter Kunz, I am very impressed and absolutely adore each piece he has to show.  Take a look for yourself and then tell me how amazing his pieces are.

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Erotic &  Sensual Art of Peter Kunz

April 26, 2009 Posted by sexintheusa | Sex | | No Comments Yet

Site of the Week – Tootsie.Talk

Tootsie.Talk

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You are going to love it……

April 26, 2009 Posted by sexintheusa | Sex | | No Comments Yet

Trojan Vibrating Condom……

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Shake things up in the bedroom. The TROJAN® Vibrating Ring is designed to enhance the pleasure of both partners through intimate vibrations.

* Safely powered by a small battery enclosed in a soft casing

* Lasts up to 20 minutes

* Every ring is quality inspected to ensure reliability

* Raised dot adds increased pleasure

* May be used with or without a condom

* Available wherever quality TROJAN® Condoms are sold*

* Includes 1 TROJAN® premium latex condom

April 26, 2009 Posted by sexintheusa | Sex | | No Comments Yet

Sex Toy Facts & Myths

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Myth: Sex toys are only for people who have a bad sex life, or no sex life

Sex Toy Fact:  Sex toys are for anyone ! Bad sex life, good sex life, awesome sex life, my sex life, your sex life, sex toys are for anyone !

Myth: Sex toys are addictive:

Sex Toy Fact:Addiction implies harm, and there is nothing harmful about using sex toys (as long as they’re used properly). It’s true that people can become used to using sex toys, and even come to rely on them, but there is no “withdrawal” and anyone can easily get themselves back to masturbation or partner sex without sex toys. People who suggest that vibrator addiction is real tend to be people who think that any sex toy use is too much sex toy use.

Myth: If a woman has a sex toy, she won’t need a man:

Sex Toy Fact: Sex toys are not replacements for people. A sex toy won’t make you breakfast, or cuddle, or tell you how much it loves you. Many men are intimidated by sex toys because they have been raised with the idea that the most important thing about them is what’s between their legs. These myths about male sexuality sink in early, and as a result most men are insecure about their sexual importance. Also, let’s remember that there are lots of women who don’t want a man in the first place, and a sex toy isn’t going to change that one way or the other.

Myth: Guys only use sex toys because they can’t get any “real” sex:

Sex Toy Fact: The cliche about men and sex toys is the guy in the raincoat, buying the “masturbator” and watching porn in his basement while masturbating. The reality about men and sex toys is that millions of them use them, in one study it was 21% of respondents, both when they are in relationships and single. The best way for a man to become a better lover is to learn more about his own sexual response. Masturbation, with or without sex toys, is the key to this, and to learning to control ejaculation. Using sex toys doesn’t mean a man is a loser, it means he’s smart, and likely to be better in bed for it.

Myth: Sex toys make sex less natural:

Sex Toy Fact:Most of us are raised being told many lies about sex among them that “natural sex” means one thing only. Is drawing less “natural” when we use a pencil and paper? Is painting more “natural” if we use our own blood, rather than paints? Of course not. Yet sex is somehow less “natural” if we use tools and toys to make it different. Sex toys are animated not by batteries but by our imaginations, and using sex toys is as natural as the people using them.

Myth: There are bad sex toys and good sex toys:

Sex Toy Fact: With the exception of a few sex toys that pose obvious risks, there is no such thing as a “good” or “bad” sex toy. Sex toys are whatever we do with them. A vibrator that would be too strong, too heavy, and painful for one person might be perfect for another. A dildo that feels sticky and looks weird to one, might be the ideal shape, size and texture for another. The trick is to find the sex toy that’s right for you, but most sex toys will be good for some people, and bad for others.

Myth: The more you pay for a sex toy, the better it is:

And the more you keep thinking this, the more money you are going to waste. Yes, there are some fabulous, very expensive sex toys on the market today. That does not mean that the toys that are cheaper do not work. I have a 40 dollar pocket rocket, and it works just as good as the 200 dollar one. No doubt :-)

Myth: Sex toys are kinky:

Fact:  Words like “kinky” and “normal” are completely relative and while they may govern what you feel comfortable talking about (or doing) in public, the sooner you realize that everyone is “kinky” behind closed doors, the happier and less stressful your sex life will be. Sex toys don’t make sex kinky, and using them doesn’t “say” anything about the kind of person you are, other than the fact that you’re the kind of person who feels worthy of sexual pleasure. Which is a highly respectable reputation to have in any social circle.

Myth: Sex toys can cause damage to your body:

Sex Toy Fact: A lot of things can damage your body. Sex toys of course can be included in that scenario if you use them in ways that should not be used. You cannot take a 10 inch dildo that has no balls and stick it completely inside someone ass without losing it. Chances are the ER doctor will be removing it. Use your brains with this one. Commen sense is all you need. Sex toys do not cause our bodies damage, we do.

April 26, 2009 Posted by sexintheusa | Female, Life, Love, Male, News, Oragasm, Sex, Sexes, Sexual, Sexual Positions, Society, Uncategorized | , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 1 Comment

BedPoster.com – The site that keeps track of your sex life !

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Is it for you?

All you have to do is sign up, and then continue signing in after each sexual encounter that you have. It makes a calender for your eyes only..

The whole purpose of BedPoster.com is “”Ever wonder how often you get busy?”" !!

So go check it out and come back here and tell me if it works for you !!

April 23, 2009 Posted by sexintheusa | Sex | | No Comments Yet

In Search of the “Perfect” Vagina: Women Spend and (Spread) to Achieve Porn Ideal

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“It doesn’t look right,” said forty-two-year-old Carla Westman*. “Like I’m uneven, like one side is larger than the other and as I’ve gotten older, I think one side is stretching. Before I could close my legs and you couldn’t see anything but now one side peeks through just a tiny bit more than the other, and that just bothers me.”

To clarify, Westman, a pharmaceutical rep from Phoenix, Arizona is feeling old. More to the point, she’s blaming her vagina, or labia to be exact. And bizarre as it may sound, she is not necessarily alone.

According to the American Society of Plastic Surgeons, approximately a thousand “vaginal rejuvenations” were performed in 2006 — the most current year for which U.S. statistics have been compiled — up 30 percent from 2005. In the United Kingdom, the number of labiaplasties performed doubled between 2000 and 2005, reaching over eight hundred procedures per year. While these accounts may be nothing to write home about yet, the limited data available (no one database records all instances of Female Genital Cosmetic Surgery) do suggest that the procedures, and the demand for such, are growing exponentially.

“The search term labiaplasty is one of the highest searched things that lead to somebody finding me on the Internet,” confirmed Dr. Scott W. Mosser, a board certified plastic surgeon based in San Francisco, who has been performing labiaplasties for the past four years. But despite the high traffic to his website, Dr. Mosser only performs about a dozen labiaplasties per year, leading him to speculate that people are less than comfortable with the procedure.

Said Dr. Mosser, “When we look at all the other procedures [that I do], the amount of individuals who search them is pretty proportionate to the actual amounts of individuals who come in for a consult. That tells me that labiaplasty may be a little bit in the dark; that women are nervous about it; or maybe it’s an area that’s perceived to be a little bit of taboo.”

What is labiaplasty?

For those still unfamiliar with the procedure, labiaplasty involves the surgical reduction and “beautification” of the labia. Women typically request the procedure for a triad of reasons. These include both visual and physical complaints ranging from discomfort during exercise and vaginal intercourse, to discomfort simply from wearing clothing, in particular when the labia minora get caught between the elastic folds of underwear, to complaints like Westman’s, where women are dissatisfied with a lack of symmetry, discoloration, or the appearance of their labia in general.

Dr. Mosser admits that while there is no true dirtiness to having labia hypertrophy, there does seem to be a psychological desire amongst women to have their genitals look organized or clean. “There is a real trend towards sort of a perception of a clean look, whatever that means, that is associated with youth,” said Dr. Mosser. Nonetheless, he is adamant that anything that is distracting enough to interfere with a person’s quality of life or lifestyle is something that should be addressed.

Is Porn Pushing ‘Ideal Genitals’?

Others, however, are not so convinced.

“Society has changed across the last little while to a context in which cosmetic surgery in general and cosmetic procedures in general have become incredibly normalized,” said Dr. Virginia Braun, a psychologist from the University of Auckland specializing in women’s health and sexuality, and the current co-editor of Feminism and Psychology. “But our knowledge of women’s genital anatomy is still not — we’re not a hundred percent there yet.”

Dr. Braun is one of a handful of doctors and professionals who are adamantly, and radically, opposed to labiaplasties as well as other forms of FGCS like vaginoplasties and hoodectomies. Both vaginoplasties, which involve the “rejuvenation” or tightening of the vagina, and hoodectomies, also called clitoral unhooding, are meant to enhance sexual pleasure (and neither, it bears mentioning, are performed by Dr. Mosser).

To hear Dr. Braun explain it, there is a huge lack of knowledge surrounding genital diversity for women. “Women who have nose jobs or breast enlargements have a huge pool of comparison to draw from. They’ve seen probably thousands of noses every day, and even though we maybe don’t [often] see naked breasts, we certainly know what breasts look like.”

So where are women like Westman, who yearn for their vulvas of yesteryear, drawing their comparisons from? As Dr. Deborah Tolman, a professor of social welfare at Hunter College School of Social Work and author of Dilemmas of Desire: Teenage Girls Talk about Sexuality puts it, “What happened in the last three years to make women’s labias so big that they can’t walk around with them?”

If the accounts from surgeons and the media are to be believed, pornography is a major influence in what women believe is desirable. While women might not be trading notes on their vaginal proportions, they have become increasingly comfortable with mainstream pornography and that leads to one dimensional representations of what vulvas look like. Add to that the phenomenon that is the Brazilian Bikini wax, where all but the smallest trace of pubic hair is removed, and women are getting the HD version of their vulvas outside of a biology class for the first time.

Controlling Women’s Bodies

The phenomenon, argued Dr. Tolman, is just another means of asserting externalized control over women’s sexuality; testament to the profound dearth of education that both women and men have about women’s bodies.

“It is in only such a vacuum that such notions of what are good and right and normal can be insinuated,” she said. “If we have other regularized ways, and by that I mean ongoing knowledge and discussion about what women’s bodies are really like, then it would be much harder for this kind of thing to sneak in and start to look normal.”

Both Dr. Braun and Dr. Tolman speak from a social constructionist perspective, where desire is understood as a learned behavior, and is not something innate or biologically wired. In other words, people learn to desire such procedures. FGCS, said Dr. Tolman, are commodities to be consumed. We learn to become consumers of surgery:

“We don’t want it. I mean we think we want it. It feels like we want it … but I think that the observation that this has only been going on for the last couple of years is testament to how this has not been a ‘forever’ quality of women’s lives.”

Then what with all the women who truly feel as though FGCS will better their quality of life? Are we simply to ignore them? Tell them that they don’t really know, or understand for that matter, what they really want?

“Individual choice is not the only criterion,” argued Dr. Leonore Tiefer, an associate clinical professor of psychiatry at New York University School of Medicine and Albert Einstein College of Medicine. According to Dr. Tiefer, it is the publicity surrounding cosmetic services that generate discontent. For example, medical makeover shows like Dr. 90210 create a context for which women learn to become dissatisfied with their bodies and genitals, and start wondering how they to might benefit from the procedures, which according to the shows’ doctors, promise better sex for both women and their partners.

Said Dr. Tiefer, “I do not condone doctors having free reign to advertise labiaplasty without scientific evidence of its benefits and lack of long-term harm. Nor do I condone doctors having before-and-after photos on their websites because of the lack of popularly-available information about the range of normal labia.”

As one of the foremost critics of “disease-mongering” trends in the medical management of women’s sexual problems, Dr. Tiefer maintains that while the rhetoric of choice and sexual pleasure around FGCS may legitimate and promote the procedures, all FGCS really produce is a generic model of women’s genitalia. Even worse, it pathologizes female genital diversity. So enraged is Dr. Tiefer, that in 2000 she founded The New View Campaign, an organization devoted to stopping all form of FGCS. The group compares FGCS to Female Genital Mutilation (FGM).

Understandably, most people find that comparison shocking. By and large, individuals from outside the specific cultures that perform FGM regard the practice as foreign and incomprehensible. But, points out Dr. Braun, “In both cases, what’s being done is that women’s genitalia are being altered to conform to a certain set of notions and expectations about what genitalia should look like, what they need to look like if they are to be appropriately feminine and appropriately desirable.”

Even the narratives of women who have undergone FGM and FGCS are similar, with women saying things like, “this is important to me to have genitals that look normal, that look appropriate, that are right,” said Dr. Braun. And although there are big differences as well, some of the same sorts of ideas about norms of what bodies should be like, and that woman’s genitals are an appropriate place to intervene, run across both.

Women’s Choice: A Question of Quality of Life

Nonetheless, Dr. Mosser doubts that the woman with labia hypertrophy who is uncomfortable engaging in intercourse, and is uncomfortable walking down the street, and is uncomfortable looking at her naked body in the mirror, would agree with the comparison. That person, said Dr. Mosser, “would consider it not to be an external pressure but a correction of something which will improve her quality of life.”

Either way, women like Westman would do best to get to know their genitals as they are and should be. If nothing else, it’s a whole lot cheaper.

April 21, 2009 Posted by sexintheusa | Sex | | 1 Comment

7 Ways to Rev Up Your Lover’s Libido

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Dr. Yvonne K. Fulbright is a sex educator, relationship expert, columnist and founder of Sexuality Source Inc. She is the author of several books including, “Touch Me There! A Hands-On Guide to Your Orgasmic Hot Spots.”

1. Entice your partner with orgasm exploration. Read up on the many types of peaking men and women can have, and let your lover know that you want to explore how both of you can reach new climactic heights.

2. Incorporate fantasy throughout the day. Plant seeds in your partner’s head of things you know spark interest. Share a hot thought you had involving an erotic moment you once shared. Describe body parts you miss touching and how you’re consumed with longing. Rent a movie with a sexy or romantic storyline. Pursue anything that will put your lover in a sensual state of mind.

3. Stay connected when you do have sex. Don’t make sex about physical gratification alone. Truly worship your lover and hail the lovemaking as a celebratory experience ― one you can’t get enough of.

4. Keep things novel and spicy in and out of the bedroom. In exploring what turns both of you on when it comes to sex, you can broaden your sexual repertoire. You want to make your lover feel like you’re embarking on an adventure, not just going for a simple roll in the hay.

5. Look your best. While we can’t look like our supermodel selves 24/7, putting effort into your appearance helps you put out more persuasions. You’ll be harder to resist.

6. Engage in verbal foreplay. While men often need sex to feel loved, women often need to feel loved before they engage in sex. The more you engage in all types of erotic talk ― affectionate, romantic, sexy ― the more you’ll pique your lover’s interest.

7. Consider how you size up sexual satisfaction. Does sex always have to end in intercourse? Many couples will tell you that they have great sex without engaging in intercourse at all. So rethink your pleasure and the different ways you can realize sexual satisfaction that don’t necessarily require going “all the way.”

April 21, 2009 Posted by sexintheusa | Female, Life, Love, Male, News, Oragasm, Sex, Sexes | , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | No Comments Yet

Well obviously Question of the day not working..

So I will not be doing that anymore… :-)

Going to focus on writing other things and will be deleting all the previous questions..

April 21, 2009 Posted by sexintheusa | Sex | | No Comments Yet

Site of the week………. Premium Sex Portal….

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Premium Sex Portal..

Site is awesome..

http://premiumsexportal.com/

April 18, 2009 Posted by sexintheusa | Female, Life, Love, Male, News, Oragasm, Sex, Sexes | , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | No Comments Yet

New shirts coming out soon…

April 18, 2009 Posted by sexintheusa | Sex | | 1 Comment

Sounding or urethral sounding, is it for you?

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Sounding or urethral sounding is the medical use of probes called sounds to increase the inner diameter of the urethra and to locate obstructions in it. Sounds are also used to stretch the urethra in order to receive piercing.

Urethral sounding and urethral play are also used to refer to this practice in a sexual context.

Urethral play can involve the introduction of either soft or rigid items into the meatus of the penis (as well as farther in). Objects such as sounds are usually only inserted into the penis to Cobb’s Curve (considered to be the “Safe Area” of the urethral tract) and can usually be easily retrieved. Other toys and items, such as catheters, may be introduced deeper (in some cases even into the bladder). Some items may even be allowed to curl several times or expand within the bladder. This action in the male may be directly or indirectly associated with stimulation of the prostate gland and some types of bladder control.

April 18, 2009 Posted by sexintheusa | Sex | | No Comments Yet

Is “I’m too tired” the new “I have a headache”

Trina Read, Canwest News Service Published: Thursday, April 16, 2009

Is “I’m too tired” the new “I’ve got a headache?”

Today’s average couple is always on the go and busy, some-how getting through each day even though stretched for time, overworked and tired. It’s not surprising that being tired gets in the way of having good sex on a regular basis – but not in the way you might think.

It’s a big couple conundrum and a question I often hear: “How can we want sex when we’re always so tired?”

Well, it’s not usually the “being tired” that’s stopping you from wanting sex.

There’s a reason sleep is considered the new sex. I think exhaustion is very real and a big concern for couples. No doubt, there are many times when a couple is too tired to have sex. Generally, though, being tired shouldn’t be linked to a person’s motivation to have sex (a.k.a. sexual desire).

The problem of pointing the finger of blame at being tired is that it usually covers up for other things that have gone wrong in the bedroom: lack of communication, buildup of resentment, boring sex … the list goes on and on. It’s easier for a couple to sidestep a huge argument by not opening that Pandora’s box. Agreeing that they are too tired becomes an easy answer.

In fact, many men and women have confessed that saying “I’m too tired” has become a bad habit – they say it before they really think about whether they are or not.

Not to rub salt in a we’re-not-having-enough-sex wound, but I know plenty of couples who have great sex lives – exhausted or not. In fact, they have more sex when they are tired, because it’s their way of relaxing and feeling good – sex can flood the brain with wonderful feel-good endorphins, oxytocin and so on.

Instead of focusing on the symptom of being exhausted, couples need to look at the bigger picture of how they are having sex. They also need to wrap their heads around creating more realistic expectations about what is doable for their present lifestyle and schedule.

Sex, like everything else in life, has its ebbs and flows. Sometimes there will be periods of upheavals, and sex will happen just once a month. During calm periods, however, that can increase to sex once a week (if that’s the couple’s frequency preference) or more. Sometimes, albeit not often, couples will look each other in the eyes and want to rip each other’s clothes off.

It all starts with a heart-to-heart talk outside the bedroom, such as: “This is our extremely busy situation for the next six months. What can we do sexually, and how can we stay connected even if we aren’t having as much sex as we’d like?”

If you’re truly in a busy period of your life, forcing the “sex once a week” formula will probably cause more harm than good. Instead, focus on maintaining intimacy outside the bedroom: touching, kissing and being nice to each other.

If you’re dealing more with the daily grind of life, scheduling sex is the easiest way for a couple to keep their sex life on the radar. It may not seem romantic and a couple can feel like failures because they no longer have spontaneous sex; however, chances are if they don’t schedule, it’s not going to happen.

The upside to scheduling is it takes away any negative feelings about who is going to initiate sex, and the walking around on eggshells wondering if “tonight is the night when I’ll have to have sex.” Research proves couples who schedule sex have more sex that is mutually satisfying.

So, the next time the words “I’m too tired” come out of your mouth as they relate to sex, think about how they are affecting your sex life overall. If you truly are too tired all the time, then maybe it’s time to get some balance in your life. After all, we can only hold our partner at arm’s length for so long before the relationship starts to suffer.

-Sexologist Dr. Trina Read is an author, sex coach and international speaker. Go to trinaread.com to sign up for free tip podcasts and read excerpts from her latest book.

April 18, 2009 Posted by sexintheusa | Female, Life, Love, Male, News, Oragasm, Sex, Sexes, Sexual, Sexual Positions, Society, Uncategorized | , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | No Comments Yet

Sex In The USA Shirts and Other Goodies !!

Well it’s been a little longer than I wanted it to be, but I am back and I have GREATTTT news too…. Sex In The USA is now going offer T-Shirts and other goodies for all you all to buy and enjoy…

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November 21, 2008 Posted by sexintheusa | Female, Life, Love, Male, News, Oragasm, Sex, Sexes, Sexual, Sexual Positions, Society, Uncategorized | | No Comments Yet

Sex With Your Mother, Father or Kids?? WTF Is Going On Here!

Being that I write a blog about sex, I of course belong to some of the biggest sex forums on the internet today. Having been said, recently there has been a lots of posts regarding incest and actually liking it.  At first I though maybe, just maybe these people are trying to get attention. Then when I continued to read all the posts regarding sex with their mothers, fathers, sisters and brothers. I realized that these people actually fantasized about it..

YUK…… YUK…….YUK…… is all I can think of saying regarding this issue… Who in their right mind wants to have sex with their family members? Not only is it absoultely disgusting, it’s just something you do not do or even think about. Besides is it not against the law?

So I am wondering who here who is reading my blog can actually admit that they have had thoughts of having some sort of sex with their family? Obviously there is many more people out there in the world today that actaully want to then I assumed.

I just cannot say to each is own on this subject.. It’s just fucking disgusting, no if, and’s or but’s about it !

August 17, 2008 Posted by sexintheusa | Female, Life, Love, Male, News, Sex, Sexes, Sexual, Society | , , , , , , , , , , , , | 1 Comment

Sex Before Marriage……

Before I even go any further let me tell you now that I am in no way, shape, or form a religious person… So reading people’s thoughts on how sex is morally wrong before marriage just crawls up my spine…. And this immaculate conception shit just makes me laugh…… So if you are religious and will be offended by someone who is not, just close out this page and move on to another topic.. :-) You have been for warned.. !!

Sex before marriage is like buying a car and not even test driving it.. How in the hell are you going to know if you are sexually compatible if you don’t try it before you commit? After all sex is an important part of being in a relationship regardless of what anyone says. If you do not have good sex, then you do not have a good relationship… PERIOD!…

Yeah yeah yeah I have heard it all from many people telling me I will go to hell because I had sex before I was married, but oh well… Rather be in hell having a good time, then in heaven being bored I say.. If there is even is such a place….

Seriously though.. Why would anyone wait to have sex until they are married? It’s not a rational thing to do at all.. The only reason people wait, is for religious purposes.. I have never heard of anyone waiting because they wanted to… Have you?

The divorce rate these days is so high, and why do you think that is!! Cause people are marrying each other without even the slightest idea as to who the other person is.. HELLO everyone is different when you are around them 24/7….. So of course these newly married couples start getting on each others nerves and “poof” the divorce issue arises… As it should.. Cause why?? Cause they have no idea who each other is and the sex probably SUCKS……

My advice is this.. If you are in a relationship and have not had sex yet, have sex !! See if you are compatible in other ways other than talking and hanging out.. Cause if you are not, there is no use in bothering..! :-)

So tell me, what do yo think about sex before marriage… Do you think it is morally wrong to do so? And if so, why??

July 26, 2008 Posted by sexintheusa | Life, Love, Male, News, Sex, Sexes, Sexual, Society, Uncategorized | , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 4 Comments

Double Penetration… One.. NO! Two Penises, YES !!

Double penetration…… 2 penises either real or fake in your vagina or in your vagina and ass at the same time…You can even try two in your ass.. (never tried)..  Psssssst.. I do not want to hear any “tisses or shhhs” on this subject, cause yeah it is damn good.! Ya know why, cause I said so, and it’s my blog so you have to listen…

Seriously though if you have not tried it, I recommend you do immediately.. And like I said you can use a real penis and a fake one.. You get the same effect either way.. I love it either way.. Real or fake.. Although of course real is always better cause well it’s real.. But a dildo will do just fine :-)

No worries if your a lesbian and do not have a penis!! There are a wide variety of double penetration dildos on the market today!.. A little pricey, but the orgasm you will allow your partner to achieve or yourself is well worth the extra pennies! Just take a look at Eden Fantasys for some of those wonderful toys ! And nooo that’s not my site, it’s just a really good site online to by fabulous sex gadgets!

So tell me, if you have not tried it already.. Would you?? And if ya have tried it, how was it and would ya do it again??

Comments below……………………..

July 22, 2008 Posted by sexintheusa | Female, Life, Love, Male, News, Sex, Sexes, Sexual, Sexual Positions, Society, Uncategorized | , , , , , | 2 Comments

Strap On – Strap Off – Strap On ………

I personally have never had the pleasure of using a strap on dildo… I have used many dildos just not a strap on.. I guess I just never got around to doing so as of yet… But I am sure in the future a time will come when I just get that urge to go the XXX store (love em) and buy the biggest strap on ever made.. :-)

For those who are in a fog about strap on dildos, let me clarify what exactly they are.. A strap on dildo is a belt that has a fake penis attached to it.. Supposedly it gives the feeling of having your own for those who do not have one.. :-) Let me re-phrase that.. It gives you the power to act as if you have one, not feel as if you do.. !

With a strap on you can basically screw any hole ya want to… Mouth, ass, vagina, whatever you wish..

Men who have a tiny dick or just can’t seem to get up use strap ons as well.. They can even be used for the ever so popular double penetration….. (another blog)…. !!

There are many different types of strap ons.. I mean it is endless..

Ya got your standard strap on (just a belt and a penis hanging off it), your probe strap on (looks like a thin butt plug), your G-spot & prostate strap on, the ever so wonderful double penetration strap on, (you can tell I like that huh), there are even strap ons that rotate and vibrate for extra stimulation….(I told ya it is endless)..

Then of course you go into the “erotic” strap ons (it wouldn’t be part of sex if there wasn’t some weird ones)… They include the enema strap on, also can be used to simulate cumming..(there is just a little bulb filled with warm water that you squueze when ready)…. Inflatable strap ons that get bigger as you pump, (that’s pretty cool), and last but not least the dildo that gives electric stimulation when inserted wherever it is going. (Basically being shocked in your vagina or ass)!

And do not worry if you cannot get it up guys !! Yup, you guessed it, there is even a hollowed out strap on that fits right over the penis… This gives the feeling of obviously an erect penis obviously…I dunno it just would not feel the same… :-)

Personally I would probably hurt someone if I had a strap on.. haha. I can be very rough if properly motivated.. (wink wink)…. Now if there was a pill that you could take to grow a penis for a day, you know I would be the first in line.. :-)

What about you all, would you use a strap on ?? Or would you let someone use one on you??   Comments below…………. :-)

July 19, 2008 Posted by sexintheusa | Female, Life, Love, Male, News, Sex, Sexes, Sexual, Sexual Positions, Society, Uncategorized | , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 3 Comments