Myth: Sex toys are only for people who have a bad sex life, or no sex life

Sex Toy Fact:  Sex toys are for anyone ! Bad sex life, good sex life, awesome sex life, my sex life, your sex life, sex toys are for anyone !

Myth: Sex toys are addictive:

Sex Toy Fact:Addiction implies harm, and there is nothing harmful about using sex toys (as long as they’re used properly). It’s true that people can become used to using sex toys, and even come to rely on them, but there is no “withdrawal” and anyone can easily get themselves back to masturbation or partner sex without sex toys. People who suggest that vibrator addiction is real tend to be people who think that any sex toy use is too much sex toy use.

Myth: If a woman has a sex toy, she won’t need a man:

Sex Toy Fact: Sex toys are not replacements for people. A sex toy won’t make you breakfast, or cuddle, or tell you how much it loves you. Many men are intimidated by sex toys because they have been raised with the idea that the most important thing about them is what’s between their legs. These myths about male sexuality sink in early, and as a result most men are insecure about their sexual importance. Also, let’s remember that there are lots of women who don’t want a man in the first place, and a sex toy isn’t going to change that one way or the other.

Myth: Guys only use sex toys because they can’t get any “real” sex:

Sex Toy Fact: The cliche about men and sex toys is the guy in the raincoat, buying the “masturbator” and watching porn in his basement while masturbating. The reality about men and sex toys is that millions of them use them, in one study it was 21% of respondents, both when they are in relationships and single. The best way for a man to become a better lover is to learn more about his own sexual response. Masturbation, with or without sex toys, is the key to this, and to learning to control ejaculation. Using sex toys doesn’t mean a man is a loser, it means he’s smart, and likely to be better in bed for it.

Myth: Sex toys make sex less natural:

Sex Toy Fact:Most of us are raised being told many lies about sex among them that “natural sex” means one thing only. Is drawing less “natural” when we use a pencil and paper? Is painting more “natural” if we use our own blood, rather than paints? Of course not. Yet sex is somehow less “natural” if we use tools and toys to make it different. Sex toys are animated not by batteries but by our imaginations, and using sex toys is as natural as the people using them.

Myth: There are bad sex toys and good sex toys:

Sex Toy Fact: With the exception of a few sex toys that pose obvious risks, there is no such thing as a “good” or “bad” sex toy. Sex toys are whatever we do with them. A vibrator that would be too strong, too heavy, and painful for one person might be perfect for another. A dildo that feels sticky and looks weird to one, might be the ideal shape, size and texture for another. The trick is to find the sex toy that’s right for you, but most sex toys will be good for some people, and bad for others.

Myth: The more you pay for a sex toy, the better it is:

And the more you keep thinking this, the more money you are going to waste. Yes, there are some fabulous, very expensive sex toys on the market today. That does not mean that the toys that are cheaper do not work. I have a 40 dollar pocket rocket, and it works just as good as the 200 dollar one. No doubt

Myth: Sex toys are kinky:

Fact:  Words like “kinky” and “normal” are completely relative and while they may govern what you feel comfortable talking about (or doing) in public, the sooner you realize that everyone is “kinky” behind closed doors, the happier and less stressful your sex life will be. Sex toys don’t make sex kinky, and using them doesn’t “say” anything about the kind of person you are, other than the fact that you’re the kind of person who feels worthy of sexual pleasure. Which is a highly respectable reputation to have in any social circle.

Myth: Sex toys can cause damage to your body:

Sex Toy Fact: A lot of things can damage your body. Sex toys of course can be included in that scenario if you use them in ways that should not be used. You cannot take a 10 inch dildo that has no balls and stick it completely inside someone ass without losing it. Chances are the ER doctor will be removing it. Use your brains with this one. Commen sense is all you need. Sex toys do not cause our bodies damage, we do.

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Before I even go any further let me tell you now that I am in no way, shape, or form a religious person… So reading people’s thoughts on how sex is morally wrong before marriage just crawls up my spine…. And this immaculate conception shit just makes me laugh…… So if you are religious and will be offended by someone who is not, just close out this page and move on to another topic.. You have been for warned.. !!

Sex before marriage is like buying a car and not even test driving it.. How in the hell are you going to know if you are sexually compatible if you don’t try it before you commit? After all sex is an important part of being in a relationship regardless of what anyone says. If you do not have good sex, then you do not have a good relationship… PERIOD!…

Yeah yeah yeah I have heard it all from many people telling me I will go to hell because I had sex before I was married, but oh well… Rather be in hell having a good time, then in heaven being bored I say.. If there is even is such a place….

Seriously though.. Why would anyone wait to have sex until they are married? It’s not a rational thing to do at all.. The only reason people wait, is for religious purposes.. I have never heard of anyone waiting because they wanted to… Have you?

The divorce rate these days is so high, and why do you think that is!! Cause people are marrying each other without even the slightest idea as to who the other person is.. HELLO everyone is different when you are around them 24/7….. So of course these newly married couples start getting on each others nerves and “poof” the divorce issue arises… As it should.. Cause why?? Cause they have no idea who each other is and the sex probably SUCKS……

My advice is this.. If you are in a relationship and have not had sex yet, have sex !! See if you are compatible in other ways other than talking and hanging out.. Cause if you are not, there is no use in bothering..!

So tell me, what do yo think about sex before marriage… Do you think it is morally wrong to do so? And if so, why??

Double penetration…… 2 penises either real or fake in your vagina or in your vagina and ass at the same time…You can even try two in your ass.. (never tried)..  Psssssst.. I do not want to hear any “tisses or shhhs” on this subject, cause yeah it is damn good.! Ya know why, cause I said so, and it’s my blog so you have to listen…

Seriously though if you have not tried it, I recommend you do immediately.. And like I said you can use a real penis and a fake one.. You get the same effect either way.. I love it either way.. Real or fake.. Although of course real is always better cause well it’s real.. But a dildo will do just fine

No worries if your a lesbian and do not have a penis!! There are a wide variety of double penetration dildos on the market today!.. A little pricey, but the orgasm you will allow your partner to achieve or yourself is well worth the extra pennies! Just take a look at Eden Fantasys for some of those wonderful toys ! And nooo that’s not my site, it’s just a really good site online to by fabulous sex gadgets!

So tell me, if you have not tried it already.. Would you?? And if ya have tried it, how was it and would ya do it again??

Comments below……………………..

I personally have never had the pleasure of using a strap on dildo… I have used many dildos just not a strap on.. I guess I just never got around to doing so as of yet… But I am sure in the future a time will come when I just get that urge to go the XXX store (love em) and buy the biggest strap on ever made..

For those who are in a fog about strap on dildos, let me clarify what exactly they are.. A strap on dildo is a belt that has a fake penis attached to it.. Supposedly it gives the feeling of having your own for those who do not have one.. Let me re-phrase that.. It gives you the power to act as if you have one, not feel as if you do.. !

With a strap on you can basically screw any hole ya want to… Mouth, ass, vagina, whatever you wish..

Men who have a tiny dick or just can’t seem to get up use strap ons as well.. They can even be used for the ever so popular double penetration….. (another blog)…. !!

There are many different types of strap ons.. I mean it is endless..

Ya got your standard strap on (just a belt and a penis hanging off it), your probe strap on (looks like a thin butt plug), your G-spot & prostate strap on, the ever so wonderful double penetration strap on, (you can tell I like that huh), there are even strap ons that rotate and vibrate for extra stimulation….(I told ya it is endless)..

Then of course you go into the “erotic” strap ons (it wouldn’t be part of sex if there wasn’t some weird ones)… They include the enema strap on, also can be used to simulate cumming..(there is just a little bulb filled with warm water that you squueze when ready)…. Inflatable strap ons that get bigger as you pump, (that’s pretty cool), and last but not least the dildo that gives electric stimulation when inserted wherever it is going. (Basically being shocked in your vagina or ass)!

And do not worry if you cannot get it up guys !! Yup, you guessed it, there is even a hollowed out strap on that fits right over the penis… This gives the feeling of obviously an erect penis obviously…I dunno it just would not feel the same…

Personally I would probably hurt someone if I had a strap on.. haha. I can be very rough if properly motivated.. (wink wink)…. Now if there was a pill that you could take to grow a penis for a day, you know I would be the first in line..

What about you all, would you use a strap on ?? Or would you let someone use one on you??   Comments below………….

Recently I was going through a forum that I am a proud member of, and to my serious surprise I came across a post about a man wanting a partner for “sniffing”.. Now I do not know about you, but who in the hell has a fetish for smelling farts ?!!

I do know that people like to be pissed on or even shit on, (just damn nasty as well) but honestly have never heard of anyone putting their nose into someone’s ass cheeks and waiting for them to let out gas just so they could get off on the smell??

Who the hell thinks or does this kind of weird shit??!!

After doing some research on the disgusting subject of “fart sniffers”, I have found that there are actually recipes out there for people to get an “aromatic fart smell”.. WTF IS GOING ON HERE……

I will post more later.. More research is definitely needed on this subject so I can understand completely how anyone could be turned on by the smell of ass gases………. Ewwww :-/

Ta Ta For Now……

All of us who love sex and love sex as often as we can, do have those days that we just want to rest an re- cooperate. What I would like to find out from all of you sex maniacs out there is this…

Could you have sex for an entire year straight? No days off, no taking a break one day, no excuses, sex at least one time day for 365 days !!!

Personally I could not ! After 5 days straight, I am ready to sleep for one whole day and then resume having sex after that.. Sex for 365 days would just exhaust me.. Specially the kind of sex I have..

I would never have even thought of having sex that long until I read an article regarding two books coming out by people who have obviously tried to have sex everyday.  The books called “365 Nights” and “Just Do It” are stories from two different people who try and accomplish having sex every night, one for 365 days, and the other for 101days.

Soooo that got me thinking !!! Could anyone actually have sex for 365 days a year and actually enjoy it after half way through?

Comments welcome please !!!

If you would like to read the article I mentioned.. You can read it at “Could You Have Sex Every Day for a Year”..

More couples over 70 are having sex – and finding it satisfying – than in previous generations, a British Medical Journal survey suggests.

Swedish researchers asked 1,500 older people across a 30-year period about their sex lives.

The number of people saying they had sex increased – as did the number of women reporting having orgasms.

A UK expert said the older people of today grew up in more sexually liberated eras.

Although there are plenty of studies about sexual “problems” associated with old age, there is relatively little research about “normal” sexual behaviour later in life.

The scientists from the University of Gothenburg in Sweden interviewed 70-year-olds in 1971-2, 1976-7, 1992-3 and 2000-2001.

They found that the number of 70-year-olds reporting sexual intercourse rose in men and women, married and unmarried.

More than two-thirds – 68% – of married men in the most recent survey said they had sex, an increase from 52%, while the percentage of married women having sex rose from 38% to 56%.

The number of men reporting physical problems, such as erectile dysfunction or ejaculation dysfunction increased.

The number of women who said they were highly satisfied with their sex lives rose too.

When sexual intercourse stopped, both men and women tended to blame men, in line with the findings from earlier surveys.

Professor Peggy Kleinplatz, from the University of Ottawa, said that doctors should now be trained to ask all patients – regardless of their age – about any sexual concerns.

She said: “Sex is an important and positive part of the lives of their 70-year-old participants, and more so for the current cohort of men and women than for their predecessors in 1971.”

Sexual stereotype

Dr Petra Boynton, a specialist in the psychology of sex and relationships at University College London, said it was important to remember that someone turning 70 in the year 2000 would have been influenced by the more free sexual attitudes of the 1960s and 1970s – and also perhaps fitter and healthier than those in their 70s in previous decades.

She said: “We still have this stereotype of elderly people with their bath chairs and canes, staggering around, who couldn’t possibly be having sex – but that isn’t the case.”

She pointed out that the study did not record the frequency of sex for any of those surveyed, simply whether they were having sex at all, and focused on penetrative sex, rather than other types of sex which might be favoured by older people.

“I am slightly concerned that this will be interpreted in a way that suggests that if you’re not having sex in your 70s, you are doing something wrong.

“There are still plenty of people who choose not to have sex.”

Meanwhile, a report by Finnish researchers says older men who have more sex will experience fewer erection problems.

A five-year study, published in the American Journal of Medicine, of 989 men aged 55-75 in Pirkanmaa, Finland, showed that having sexual intercourse less than once per week doubled the risk of erectile dysfunction, compared to having sex once per week

If you are not familiar with the word ménage à trois, it simply means threesome.. Yep you got it, three people having sex at the same time..

The mix is usually mff, mmf, mmm or fff.. However ya want it, just do not knock it until you have tried it a few times over. Cause once you do, you will definitely want more, more and more..

And let’s get this straight from the get go… If you and your significant other do participate in a threesome, you are not cheating or sinning!! You are just having a lot of fun.. Exactly what sex is intended for, besides procreation of course…..

Before having a threesome however there are a few rules you need to know..

1. If you are insecure about yourself or your relationship. Do not even bother having a threesome. This will cause serious grief in the relationship.. Cause all you will do is question what went on and it just becomes a mess..

2. If you are not comfortable about having a threesome, then do not have one.. No one is forcing you no matter how much the other wants one.. If they do not like your decision, then tough..

3. While in a threesome, be sure to pay attention to ALL parties not just one in particular.. It’s not nice to do that ya know..:-)

4. Pick a person you both are attracted to.. Nothing like having a threesome with someone who is just repulsive to you and does nothing for your sexual presence..

5. Always, always use protection…… Why? Just do it…. You know why you need protection…And if you don’t then you shouldn’t be having sex let alone a threesome..

Sooooo if you can follow these very simple rules, there should be no problem.. Now all you have to do is find that other person.. It’s not as hard as you think either.. Maybe a friend that you both know… A swinger’s club… Shit you can even go on Adult Friend Finder and find someone decent there.. Just be selective and take your time in finding the right person……. No need to rush!

Have you had a threesome? If so, how was the experience!

If not, do you want to have a threesome? And what does your other half think about it?

Comments and question below please…….